Hold Me Accountable

Accountability is the reason that many of us start this whole blogging thing.  It’s amazing the power of putting goals out into the world and seeing an interaction of people with them.  They hold you to it.  It’s so easy for you to just shy away from a difficult task if it’s just you.  But, once you tell someone else, and you have to answer to them about status and progress, well, the game changes.

Enter Mr. 1500.

So, there was a point in time when Mr. 1500 was talking about how he wanted to to lose some weight.  So, I offered to give him some workout videos. Through the process of trying to get him several massive video files, a bet blossomed.

Basically, we have until FinCon to lose as much weight as possible.  We will weigh in at Fincon and the winner gets dinner paid for by the loser, a guest post on their blog, a growler of local beer, and most importantly $1.

We decided that we would track this with weekly weigh-ins and then once we hit October, we’ll go dark , we’ll stop updating each other, and have a final weigh-in live in front of all our contemporaries.  Sort of like one of our favorite shows, the Biggest Loser.  It’s going to be a fantastic evening.  I guess I’ll have to figure out how to get a scale to Dallas.

We’re a little over a month in, so how’s it going?

I think someone is going the wrong way?

As you can see, I’m considerably ahead, and gaining speed.  But, I know he’s hungry for a victory (see what I did there!), so I have to keep it up.  I’ll have to answer to my 3 screaming fans at the final weigh in!!!

What have I been doing?

Well, Sun Tzu says in the Art of War:

Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win.”

When we decided on this bet, I knew that I was taking a new job.  That new job had a lovely commute that came with it, a 25 mile round trip bike ride.  I hadn’t been doing any sort of physical activity up until that point.  I even just recently got a new bike, after my other one was destroyed.  At this point, I can count on one hand how many times I’ve driven a motorized vehicle to my new office, and I’ve been there over 6 weeks!

Another thing that has helped me, is being in two competitions at once… one where I am very publicly accountable, and one where I am in a death match at home with the Mrs.

She’s even started meeting me on my way home and riding with me.  It’s another one of those great times that we get a chance to catch up and rehash the day while we ride along the beach.  Bike rides certainly are something that we are going to continue for the foreseeable future.

We’ve also been working out in the mornings.  So, we’ll get up and go for a run, or do some workout in our free gym, in our garage.  It’s very helpful to have a partner, that not only is supportive, but also is trying to beat you at your own game.

We’re cooking every night, we haven’t really changed our diet all that much, but we are eating less.  I’ve started going with fruit in the morning opposed to waffles and pancakes.

Beer has been something that we should give up and just can’t bring ourselves to.  It’s just too good!!!!

I’ve tried and tried and tried to do these weight loss challenges in the past, and have never really been successful.  I always find myself about 2-3 weeks in saying to myself:

Ehhh… who cares.  It’s just for me.  I don’t really care.

This is where the accountability comes in.  Now that I’ve broadcast this to the world I feel more obligated to make it happen.  Our friend at 1500days has blasted it out to his dozens of followers.  And because now, I have people hitting me up on twitter, tempting me with delicious beers.

Thanks a lot guys!!!

Accountability works wonders, Try it

This works for anything that you are attempting to change, including savings rates and cost cutting.  It keeps you honest, it keeps you motivated.  Numbers don’t have feelings and excuses, neither does the universe.  Holding your own feet to the fire (or FIRE) tends to make it so you can’t back away.  You have to keep going.  It worked for our marathons, just imagine if we told all those people we were doing it, only to shy away?

So, if you’re having trouble sticking to your goals, start talking about them.  Let people and the universe know.  You’ll be amazed how much more you’ll stick to it, when you know that someone is going to ask you about it the next time you see them.  So, I’ll have to keep updating you on the progress I’m making with weight loss.  Who knows if we want to expose our budget, but it certainly keeps you interested when you have to answer to someone.

But, in the mean time… Remember:


  • My Sons Father September 6, 2017 at 5:06 am

    This is awesome! A live weigh in at fincon with Mr. 1500? This is exactly what makes this community so great.

    Losing weight used to be easy for me, simply watch what I eat for a week or two and before I knew it I was at my desired weight. Well that all changed this year. I think my metabolism finally died. So I might need to try this whole accountability thing, but I’m not sure I’m ready for it!

    Great post, great idea. Looking forward to hearing how the weigh in goes.
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    • Mr WoW September 6, 2017 at 6:50 am

      Well, between the two of us we’ll have updates I’m sure. So should be fun. The only problem is that we have a trip planned in the quiet month. I guess I’ll have to behave.

      • Mr. 1500 September 12, 2017 at 8:05 am

        Ecuadorian cuisine has no calories. Eat all you want.
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        • Mr WoW September 12, 2017 at 9:23 am

          We will see. Also I’m sure you’ll have minions there throwing beers and donuts and ice cream at me the whole time.

  • Mrs. Picky Pincher September 6, 2017 at 6:36 am

    Bahaha! I can bring you a scale to Fincon. 🙂 I can’t wait to see this showdown! But yes, accountability is a fantastic way to achieve your goals. After all, if you aren’t measuring against your goals, how can you be sure you’ve reached them?
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    • Mr WoW September 6, 2017 at 6:51 am

      That would probably be worthwhile. Wait you’re in Texas right? Everything going alright?

      Well, I’m a numbers guy by trade so yes measuring and goals are part of my trade.

    • Mr. 1500 September 12, 2017 at 5:26 pm

      A scale, hmmmm. FYI: I weigh myself without even a thread of clothing. Hey, I need every advantage that I can get!
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      • Mr WoW September 13, 2017 at 7:28 am

        Well… that will make FinCon pretty entertaining now won’t it?

  • Tonya@Budget and the Beach September 6, 2017 at 6:37 am

    I don’t know why, but accountability does nothing for me. 🙁 But, I am my toughest coach so I tend to do better when I just keep goals to myself and slay them. Go figure! We are all so unique. Good luck with the weight loss challenge. Knowing you I have a feeling you’ll win. Sorry Mr. 1500. 🙁 Mr. WOW is pretty stubborn. lol! I’ll be the Mrs. would agree with that! 🙂
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    • Mr WoW September 6, 2017 at 6:53 am

      Awesome! I finally have one person rooting for me!! Thanks!!

      Might not work for everyone but the key is to find what works for you. Sounds like you have.

      • Tonya@Budget and the Beach September 6, 2017 at 7:22 am

        Yup, down two pounds and body fat sloooooowly but surly coming off. I have to be almost 100% on point. Very little beer or wine happening for this lady. That being said, let’s get a drink soon! OK OK, how about a healthy dinner with you and your better half? 🙂
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        • Mr WoW September 6, 2017 at 9:13 am

          That’s great to hear… and yes we should do that soon.

  • Miguel (The Rich Miser) September 6, 2017 at 7:25 am

    I agree, accountability works for me. If I tell my friends and family that I’m going to do something and then fail to do it, I feel like just another BS-er.

    As someone who was a terrible athlete in school that became a better one later, I can say that it gets easier as you see progress and develop habits. My experience has been that once you lose weight and like how you look and feel, you become much more resistant to going back to the old days.

    • Mr WoW September 6, 2017 at 9:13 am

      Great advice, Thanks! Yeah the bs-er part is exactly what I’m thinking. Hence the public shame.

      The habits are forming which is good. I noticed my meals are getting smaller and smaller which is good as well.

  • Dads Dollars Debts September 6, 2017 at 9:16 pm

    Ha ha. Nice work. Glad to see you are keeping yourself accountable and good luck going forward. I am sure you will crush it! Just don’t let Mr 1500 cry in defeat.
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    • Mr WoW September 7, 2017 at 1:27 pm

      Thanks for the vote of confidence! I sure hope so, it would make our trip all that much sweeter.

    • Mr. 1500 September 12, 2017 at 8:56 am

      This is so motivating! Bring on the insults! I eat them and grow stronger! And hopefully leaner! 🙂
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      • Mr WoW September 12, 2017 at 9:26 am

        I believe these are all high calorie insults. Beware!

  • Mr. Need2save September 11, 2017 at 5:10 pm

    The beer is always the last thing to give up 🙂 I have a weakness for ice cream as well.

    I totally agree on the accountability catalyst. Who wants to be ‘called out’ on something they didn’t see through? Another thing that helps me is paying money for something. For my marathon training, I enroll in a 4-month long training program that costs around $100. Not big money, but I want to get my $100 out of it.
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    • Mr WoW September 12, 2017 at 9:25 am

      Beer and ice cream are definite. We’re having trouble giving up bacon as well. I’m lucky I’m not home as crab dip is a weakness as well.

      Yeah. The money thing doesn’t do it for me. I guess that’s the economist in me looking at sunk costs.

      But being called out is definitely motivating.

  • Performance Update (Day 1703): Rich Ducks and Bloated Guts - 1500 Days to Freedom1500 Days to Freedom September 13, 2017 at 3:04 am

    […] Mr. WoW and I have a bet going about who can lose the most weight by FinCon at the end of October. At stake is $1 and a heaping load of pride is. The loser also has to buy dinner, beer and guest post on the winner’s blog. I’m not doing so hot: […]


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